I am only in love not desperate:Travis Kelce sends a message,we are taking a step at time and the relationship is still fresh

A recent op-ed urged Taylor Swift, 34 and dating Kansas City Chiefs tight end Travis Kelce, to get married. Here’s what the conversation is missing.

As a behavioral economist and lifelong bachelor, I should no longer be surprised by how comfortable married people are telling single people how to live. Among elsewhere, this unsolicited advice can be found on high-profile opinion pages, with an array of articles advising singles to marry sooner rather than later in order to live a more fulfilling life.

A recent Deseret News op-ed urged 34-year-old Taylor Swift, currently dating Kansas City Chiefs tight end Travis Kelce, to get married. According to this piece, Swift could then find stability and contentment, diverging from a path of serial monogamy and public heartbreaks (often referenced in her lyrics). And by marrying now, she would improve her chances to have kids, something the pop star has acknowledged as a potential goal.

EXCLUSIVETaylor Swift and Travis Kelce doing Coachella in style! They will be staying at a TOP luxury members-only club as they support Lana Del Rey

Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce will be hitting Coachella this weekend to support their friend, singer Lana Del Rey, who is performing on Friday.

And DailyMail.com has learned where the power couple will be staying: at the very exclusive The Madison Club in La Quinta, California.

They chose the place because it is members only and not easy to get a membership, either, which will keep Average Joe and Jane looky-loos away.

‘They want privacy so The Madison Club is perfect for them, because not just anyone can stay there. They don’t want a ton of eyes on them, they want to be able to let their guard down and be comfortable,’ a source told DailyMail.com.

And there is another reason they chose The Madison Club: Travis can play golf there. ‘He loves to golf in the desert,’ said a source. ‘And The Madison Club is a great place to do just that.’

Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce will be hitting Coachella this weekend to support their friend, singer Lana Del Rey, who is performing on Friday. And DailyMail.com has learned where the power couple will be staying: at the very exclusive The Madison Club.

And DailyMail.com has learned where the power couple will be staying: at the very exclusive The Madison Club

They chose the place because it is members only and not easy to get a membership, either, which will keep looky-loos away. ‘They want privacy so The Madison Club is perfect for them, because not just anyone can stay there. They don’t want a ton of eyes on them, they want to be able to let their guard down,’ a source told DailyMail.com

The property has a ‘world-class Tom Fazio-designed golf course, a members-only clubhouse,’ according to the club’s website.

And there are amenities for the songbird too: ‘There is a day spa and fitness facility complete with a recreational and lifestyle wellness team,’ the site added.

The club also has swimming pools, a gift shop, a mini market, a top restaurant, a sushi bar, a cocktail bar, and fitness instructors.

‘The Madison Club is a tranquil sanctuary, offering sophisticated dining, and modern fitness and wellness programs. Escape to the spa and revive with a regimen of wellness treatments against a striking backdrop of the surrounding mountain ranges,’ the site added.

The pair are attending Coachella to support their friend Del Rey.

The first weekend of the 2024 Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival begins in Indio, California, on Friday, April 12; Lana will perform on the Coachella Stage on Friday at 11:20.

And Taylor, 34, and Lana have already mapped out their trip.

‘Taylor and Lana had dinner this week to talk about their time at Coachella, and what they will be doing and wearing,’ said the source.

‘So they already have it all planned. They want to have fun and really enjoy themselves while in the desert and make it stress-free. Coachella can get stressful because of the crowds and all the events, but they want to be more chill.’

The ladies plan to ‘capture the vibe of Coachella,’ with their fashion choices, it was added and will go ‘hippie chic with an artist flair for fun,’ it was added.

Kelce #87 of the Kansas City Chiefs celebrates with Swift after a 17-10 victory against the Baltimore Ravens in the AFC Championship Game at M&T Bank Stadium in January in Baltimore

And there is another reason they chose The Madison Club: Travis can play golf there. ‘He loves to golf in the desert,’ said a source. ‘And The Madison Club is a great place to do it.’ The property has a ‘ world-class Tom Fazio-designed golf course, a members-only clubhouse,’ according to the club’s website

And there are amenities for the songbird too: ‘There is a day spa and fitness facility complete with a recreational and lifestyle wellness team,’ the site added. The club also has swimming pools, a gift shop, a mini market, a top restaurant, a sushi bar, a cocktail bar, and fitness instructors

The pair are attending Coachella to support their friend Del Rey. The first weekend of the 2024 Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival begins in Indio, California, on Friday, April 12; Lana will perform on the Coachella Stage on Friday at 11:20. And Taylor, 34, and Lana have already mapped out their trip. ‘Taylor and Lana had dinner this week to talk about their time at Coachella, and what they will be doing and wearing,’ said the source. ‘So they already have it all planned. They want to have fun and really enjoy themselves while in the desert and make it stress-free’

The source also said that Taylor has been in Los Angeles this week with Travis and even attended a taping of his new show Are You Smarter Than Celebrity? in the Culver City neighborhood.

‘She has been by his side and likes to support him. Plus she thinks the show is super fun and will be a hit, so she is happy for him,’ it was added.

Kelce has already told People that he is a ‘Coachella guy’: ‘I love going to Coachella. I love live music in general. So you might see me pop up over there at some point.

‘I’m not sure if I’ll go to a weekend, one or two, or if I even have time knowing my schedule’s filling up pretty quick before we get started back up for football here.’

Taylor and Travis started dating in September.

Their relationship started heating up around the holidays and became very high profile when she attended the Super Bowl to support him. Lana was also there in her VIP box.

Swift is on a two month break from her The Eras Tour.